Stop Chasing Abundance — Start Becoming It

Most people are trying to manifest abundance through strategy, effort, and repetition...
 More vision boards. More affirmations. More mindset hacks.
 But if you’re still stuck in the same loop, repeating the same patterns, you’re not alone—and it’s not because something is wrong with you.

In this soul-fueled episode, I share the raw truth I had to learn the hard way:

Abundance doesn’t come from force.
 It flows through frequency.

You’ll hear my personal story of waking up in fear, rebuilding from rock bottom, and the moment I finally understood that manifesting isn’t about chasing what you want—it’s about becoming who you truly are.

I’ll walk you through the Abundancing formula:
 🌀 Awareness – Resistance = Desire Abundancing
…and how aligning your nervous system with your soul is the key to unlocking prosperity in health, wealth, peace, relationships, and purpose.

Whether you’re new to this path or deep in the journey, this episode is a transmission—designed to activate the remembrance within you.

You are abundance.
Let’s turn the signal up.

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🌀 The Soul-Flow Abundancing Experience
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Transcript

Dr. Tom: 0:00

Most people are trying to manifest abundance by chasing it. Just more strategy, more books, more hustle, more videos, more affirmations, more vision boards, and it's not working. So you're wondering if something wrong with me, I, and just not have connection to that essence, that source, the God light life that. Is helping other people manifest, like why are others getting what they want? And I can't. I spent the majority of my life waking up every morning feeling rushed, fight or flight, worried that something was gonna go wrong, just waking up almost in a panic. It's hard to sleep. I've had many periods of my life where everything was horrible and I built it back up to good. I've even had periods where things were great. Money, relationship, house, wife, kids, you name it. And then it came crashing down. I've learned that it was all because of me and my vibrational frequency, energy alignment with source. So let's talk about manifest. And by the way, my name is Dr. Tom Hing, actually Thomas Miller, but I've recently become a doctor of Metaphysic. But this is stuff that you don't need a doctorate to know. It's stuff we already know. We just forget. So I'm not here to teach you anything, convince you of anything, sell you anything, just here to help you remember what if the real secret isn't to get abundance, but to become it. I mean, true freedom for me means not having to worry about money. Your health, your relationships, peace of mind, your purpose, alignment, just feeling at ease because you're aligned with who you truly are and where you're truly going. But manifesting that can seem hard if you feel very far removed from it. Here's what I've learned. It's not about the actions we do. It's not even just the thoughts we think. It's actually becoming the energy vibration that aligns with our soul desire. So abundance is isn't a destination. It's not somewhere you get there, you, you are never done and you can't get it wrong. Abundance is your frequency, your vibration. It's your natural state. You are born abundant. So whether you're trying to have more abundance in your health, your finances, your career. Your alignment with purpose, your relationships, your peace of mind, your mental and physical and emotional health. I have a simple equation that's gonna help you, a formula, if you will. Now, we've been taught that if you think positive and just work really hard, we'll finally arrive at this magical place called prosperity abundance. But here's the truth, and no one told you. We don't attract what we want. We attract what we are. You don't attract what you want. You attract what you are. And most of us, especially if you grow up in a poor family, especially if people told you money doesn't grow on trees, especially if you've been overweight and not healthy for a long time, you start thinking, well, the same things you thought the day before, the month before, the year before. We keep repeating the same thoughts again and again and again. The same beliefs again and again and again. And the same emotional vibrations that go with those thoughts. And that means we're tuned into the frequency of our past, present self, like the life we're experiencing today, this life experience as a result of our past present thinking, feeling, believing, and intending. That's our past present self, and that's usually fear, lack. Fear of not being enough, not having enough. And this loops our nervous system. It's our nervous system caught in a subconscious loop of old programs, which is repeating the same familiar past again and again. The body's carrying the imprint of survival and familiarity. And so we keep, even though we want more and we know more is possible, we keep repeating the same programs. It's like our energy is still aligned with the past, and how can we build a new future, a more abundant future if we're stuck in the energy systems of the past? We can't. That's why people are stuck. That's why I was stuck, and there is definitely a way out. I call it abundancing. Abundancing isn't just a mindset. It's not about forcing, fixing, or faking it. Abundancing is energetic frequency alignment, soul-flow alignment. I'm gonna call it your soul. Call it your presence. Call it your essence. Call it awareness. I like that. It is our connection to the non-physical non five sensory energy. It exists. Quantum mechanics proves it. That's topic for a different video. We have a quantum, non-physical, spiritual energy surrounding us that we can access at any time. And when we align with that, that's when we start Abundancing. So here's the formula I teach everyone I work with, and here it is for you. Now, awareness minus resistance equals your desire abundance. Awareness and that's beyond your five senses, minus resistance. Those are the old programs, equals your desire, fulfilled, desire, abundance. That means when you become aware of what's real and true and you release programs that are blocking the flow, your natural desire begins to form. It begins to flow. You begin to see it in the physical world. But it's all energetic. There's no judgment. No one is up on a throne sitting in the heavens judging you, whether you're worthy or not. No, we only judge ourselves, and if we're judging, we're not in the alignment energy of Abundancing. Your natural desire is your soul desire. You are born with. It is already in existence. If you can observe it, it exists. It's a matter of aligning your energy systems with it. That's the secret. You are this frequency and it is there already. It's just tuning into that radio station that it's playing on. That's why I call it AbunDancing dancing it out because you're dancing to the music you want to hear and you're feeling the way you want to feel, and you're living the life that you desire because you are finally tuned into the right frequency. Call radio station. I wanna help you because just knowing this on a cognitive conscious thinking level, it's great, but it doesn't put it into action. That's called embodiment or alignment. When you take the knowledge and you put into action and you start seeing the results of it, but aligned action means aligning with the thoughts and the feelings and the intentions of that frequency. It's simple awareness minus resistance equals your desire. Fulfilled abundance is a verb, it is a noun, and it's a state of being. So I'm inviting you to join me for a two day live workshop, a hundred percent free. And I mean, this is not just another webinar about mindset training. Nothing wrong with them, but until the pavement hits the road, until you put it into action. It's just more information cluttering your mind, so it's a two day energetic experience. I'm gonna help you activate your prosperity frequency, whether you wanna have more abundance with your health, your wealth, your career, your relationships, Peace of presence, your mental and emotional health. Start with the one that matters most and grow out from there. But this means aligning your nervous system with your soul. This means aligning your programs, the reactive programs that have been running the show, subconscious shadow, trauma, all that, aligning it with your soul. That's how we're gonna transform your soul desire into form. You can see and experience without any force. I'm gonna help you reclaim your power to create, to create prosperity in a way that works for you. So maybe you have a job you like, maybe you hate your job, you wanna shift, maybe you wanna start your own business. So whether you're building a business or simply feeling the nudge to live more on purpose, this workshop is your permission slip. You have permission to remember who you truly are. Again, I'm not here to teach you anything or convince you anything. If this does not feel resonant, it's not resonating with you at all. Doesn't apply. Let it fly. But if it does, you're simply remembering what your energetic field of intelligence is always known. You don't need a funnel. You don't need to fake confidence. You don't need to wait. You just need a yes, a hell yes to the part of you that already has it, a part of you that, that version of you that already exists. It's just now becoming aware of it. Removing the resistance and allowing your desire to start Abundancing. I mean, just ask yourself, what would it feel like to become abundance, to become magnetic, to vibrate in that energy all day long, every day and every way. I mean, what would it feel like to stop chasing, struggling, and start radiating everything's energy. You don't need to fix anything. You don't need to become more. You just need to become aware. It all starts with awareness, and if you're still watching this, if something's stirring in your chest and your belly and your gut, that's your heart gut, brain coherence coming together then I believe you're ready. Ready to a AbunDance, AbunDancing. You don't have to dance, but you do have to align with a different frequency than you've been on. You're ready to abunDance. You're ready to let your soul flow. You're ready to remember then I'm ready to show you what's been working for me and for the other people that I've been fortunate enough to work with over the past months. So there's a link. Click it to reserve your spot. It's free, it's sacred, and it's for you. Let's turn your Abundancing signal up. Let's abunDance together. Dancing in mind. Dancing in body, dancing in the light that we all share Abundancing'cause I care. Thank you. I love you. I'll see you on the inside.